Healthy Conflict in your relationship/marriage.

It’s not a strange thing that couples quarrel. There’s nothing wrong with civil disagreement in your relationship or marriage, even if you dated and married yourself, you’ll still quarrel once in a while lol 😂, this is true.
You can disagree, quarrel and yet maintain utmost respect and love for each other in the relationship.
So how can you make serious disagreement count by using it as a tool to know each other more instead of drifting apart.
1️⃣ Remember that it’s ok to have a different opinion from your partner.

2️⃣ Different opinions does not mean you’re rejecting them or vice versa.

3️⃣ Eliminate “noise” from your quarrel,  learn to separate the facts from the noise.
    Noise is an irrelevant thing that is not connected to the main focus of the disagreement, eg you’re arguing about spending habits and one of you brings up a previous different disagreement you had and before you know it you've moved from talking about A to talking about Z.
4️⃣ Agree to disagree.
Remember that you’re arguing to either know more about your partner or learn a new perspective that’s different from your own. You’re not arguing to win. No one wins an argument.
Lastly .. always end every quarrel or disagreement with “I LOVE YOU 😘 “ it reminds the two of you about what really matters.